To stay in the feeling of love and wholeness and alignment to self, to be in the positive state of emotion without an external tigger, to just accept every moment for what it is, is becoming love. My mentor Shri viral ji says, when you carve out a sculpture out of a rock, you chisel away unnecessary pieces which are not needed, hence creating a sculpture. So the sculpture is always there you just took out unnecessary pieces not needed. Similarly love is present within us at all times, we just need to shed away the layers and filters and conditioning and blocks and connect to our true self, becoming love.